Sunday, April 28, 2013

The After School Club

Our first meeting was this week. We started with the third though fifth graders which is a much easier group than first and second graders (= I am teaching music to the older group and I haven't taught elementary kids here yet so I was quite curious about how it would all go down.

Layla's school is a British Curriculum International school with about 90% local kids and 10% from elsewhere in the middle east and the rest of the world. I remember meeting one family straight from Iran and no one in the family spoke Arabic. Can you imagine? Thankfully there was some staff member around to translate for them.

The school has been open for three years and is adding a grade every year. The principal and core of the staff are all from South Africa and they are top-notch. The prinicpal says he prefers not to hire american or european teachers because their expectations are too high. They are not prepared to teach with limited materials, or to teach children with families with very very low education levels. Most of the 40 year olds in this country did not group with electricity, paved roads, hospitals or elementary education. Those of you who have been in developing countries know that a country without a long history of education has a whole host of issues that will be worked through as it creates its own educational foundation amongst its people. The principal believes that most South African teachers are more familiar with this dynamic than their American or European counterparts. I think it is a very valid observation.

So anyway - a friend and I decided to start the after school program because we were both hankering to do a little something more in the community and we both had kids at the school. The leadership is very grateful and supportive of us running their after school club because it means that they do not have to do it themselves (= So it is a win-win. We do charge for it for many reasons but MOSTLY to make sure kids actually attend regularly! We have about 7 "classes" offered at any one time and from 50-75 students involved depending on the semester. We are in our third cycle of doing this.

The music class that I taught was pretty basic. We are just doing some rhythm things and will do some basic theory along with having some guest performers. The strangest moment was when I asked a girl her last name and she didn't know what to say. It is similar here to what you read in the bible: layla, the daughter of so and so the daughter of so and so the daughter of so and so etc etc. So she wasn't sure how far to go back and then her friends told her to give her tribe's name but she didn't seem to clear on that (= So we just settled for her first name and then a few more back from that (= So interesting.

I'll post more as we have more going on....the biggest news this week, actually, is that it has been raining off and on for DAYS! this is so amazing. It also means our roof is leaking water. But hey, we love rain out here!

Sunday, April 14, 2013

Road Trip!

My Neice

Baby Lillianna is about three months old now! I can't remember exactly when she was born at the moment, but it was two weeks early! Mike and Jen had the baby in Colorado so we could all be together which was a big gift to us on their part. THANK YOU!!

I was able to be a birthing coach of sorts to my sister which was cool and exhausting at the same time. I give huge respect to Doulas and midwives...I could never have such an intense job that requires so much emotional and physical output while losing sleep at the same time. I'd do it for my sister and a few close friends, but that is it!! Regardless, Jen was a rockstar mom in the delivery room.

After about two months they packed things up and headed back to Florida to be a family of three down there where they have been living the past three years. We are excited for their family to grow and develop over the next few years (= 
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New Friends!

We've had new friends move to town! They were seven years in another Middle Eastern country so they are hitting the ground running so to speak. The kids are still getting to know each other and developing their playing styles but it has been lots of fun for them.
   
Let's just say these two little girls are ADORABLE!!!! They are in the same class at school as well (=
   
We went camping one of our first weekends back home because the good weather only lasts so long! They were real troupers to go camping for the first time with their four kids (= We joined Jon and Vic who are our usual camping partners so thre three families had a great time!

Their littlest one is almost a year and just learned to walk!
 
Joey is on the right and he belongs with Jon and Vic's family (= The four of them had a great time playing on the beach when we were camping.

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Monday, April 8, 2013

Catching from Easter, to Sue's visit to our road trip

Our wonderful Azeb baking Ethiopian bread at 4am!
 
Sue making Monkey bread 
It took Ryan awhile to get the hang of his first Easter Egg hunt (=
    
Examing in the loot!
Family photo Easter morning 2013
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Will this work? Captions are not working. I am irritated.

Don't know where this will show up, but after the Easter sunrise service we did an egg hunt then we all took a big nap. Except mama of course.
Then we went to a nice, Western hotel and swam in their lovely pool. It was a fun day and the weather was PERFECT. The camels were randomly walking down the hill behind the hotel. So crazy.
Have i said yet how irritated I am at this crazy caption thing? What is the point?? I love the sunglassse on the kids (=

Our Easter photo - keep in mind we had just come back from a sunrise service in the desert (=




                              
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Friday, March 22, 2013

"Let's Talk About Hijab"

Yet another great post from my friend Rachel......this is actually a guest post from a muslim woman explaining more about what it means to cover her head. GREAT perspectives (= This is a series on Rachel's blog so scroll down to the end of the article to read the other posts in this category...


Wednesday, March 20, 2013

Getting sick

I think I've written about this before, but there is a book out there called "Where there is no doctor" and in our part of the world, people know this kind of resource. We live in a country where most 40 year olds did not grow up with education, paved roads, electricity or hospitals. Today, there are plenty of both but the quality of each of them varies WIDELY.

We we like to joke and say we need a book called "Where there is a doctor and you don't want to go to him/her" Things covered in this book should be as follows:

- how to respond when your doctor gives you a list of 5-6 medicines for a simple cough. How do you know what to take? What is just extra stuff they are suggesting?
- or when they tell you to get a chest x-ray.
- how to respond to the category of folk lore and traditional medicinal suggestions. What do I do when he gives me his list of medicines and then tells me in detail how to make a certain type of tea, or tells me to feed my 2 year old coke and not fresh juice? There is a wide variety of suggestions that fit this category.
- how do you respond when your doctor insults both you and your child? Really?
- what do I do when they doctor is obviously rude and acting superior and at the same time demanding I give an injection for pain for a mere earache?
- what do I say when the doctor notes that I am turning 40 and relishes the opportunity to lecture me on all the things that will happen to my body as a result of turning 40. Higher likelyhood of diabetes, sagging skin, wrinkles, dry skin, night sweats, dryness in general (he was vague on this point), need for calcium. Really. He actually acted out the dry skin and wrinkles (=

Anyway. I think a book like this should be written. It helps to navigate the waters of a traditional culture with a recent infant mortality rate of 60% that loves going to the doctor to get piles of medicines to take with gusto. Just one of the crazy and humorous things about living out here!

Some random pictures

Our kids love to cook! Here they are with their own piece of dough (=
 
Our house helper learned to make these from a neighbor....it is a little like sopapillas. SO lovely!
 
Fried dough - every culture has its version. Yum Yum.
 
The round is the traditional shape, the duck.....layla's version. 
Yikes is all I can say. 5 going on 16!
 
There are lots of sweet moments like this these days. Layla is enjoying reading to Ryan and he just loves anything his big sister does! They do fight of course, but they are also great playmates.   
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Wednesday, February 27, 2013

borrowing creativity

I just can't seem to find the mental or physical space and time to blog with intention these days. So sorry to those of you who are interested in life here (=

I will say that it takes about a month to "re-enter". It just takes awhile to say hello to everyone, to get the kitchen back in order, the linens back in their places and all your suitcases and stuff sorted out.

Also, it is winter for only a few more weeks and we are desperately trying to fit in all our outdoor fun for the year. We left here when the weather was JUST getting cool enough to be outside and we returned with a few weeks left of good weather. We love this season (=

The biggest thing to affect our return this time is that we moved to this house just a few weeks before coming to the US. We got pretty settled, but after being gone for THREE MONTHS (whew!) I had forgotten where  we put a lot of stuff.

In the meantime while I am not really blogging, enjoy this post from my friend Rachel who is a phenomenal writer and expat (=

http://www.djiboutijones.com/2013/02/20-things-expats-need-to-stop-doing/

Monday, February 18, 2013

City Water!

As most of you know, life tasks just take longer to accomplish here. Our new house (we moved in Aug 2012 but were absent for three months!) was not connected to city water when we moved in. We had to call for a tanker to come and deliver water 2-3 times a week. We would run out and not be able to flush toilets, do laundry or dishes on a fairly regular basis. It was a pain in the neck for Tom to keep calling the water guy and he had to be paid in cash in small bills each time. And he didn't want to have me or our house helper pay him because we are women and he didn't want to look at us. Really. He would hold his hand out and look the other way (= His idea of being religious, apparently.

So during our absence, apparently the modern convenience of being connected to the city water main reached our neighborhood and everyone is now connected! Our water guy was surprised to get a call from us because everyone in our neighborhood is connected.

Because we rent our home, the landlord had to give his approval in writing and send something with a stamp/seal for us to give to the water utility company. Instead of filling out an on-line form or mailing in something to us or to the utility company, our landlord hand wrote a note, put it in an envelope and put it on the bus from his town (15 hours drive or a 4 day bus ride from our town). Hysterical process once Tom registered what he was saying.

Several days later, Tom got a call from the bus driver that he had some papers for us and that we needed to meet the bus to pick them up. Tom did so and after giving them to the water utility, in about 12 business hours the whole process was finished. Life is crazy here, some things are so old fashioned (like sending a paper by bus) and other things so efficient (you show me any american utility that could move that fast!) and you just never know what you are getting!

All the being said, I will never have to monitor our water levels or think about how much laundry I am doing in one day again.....hopefully!

Also typical to life here, during the process of getting our water hooked up, a major pipe burst from the city water main to our water tank on the roof. Tom had to get that repaired as well today. He has put in two long  plumbing days. Thank the LORD he can figure this stuff out!!